I am about to leave tumblr. The amount of anon shit I get is irritating and I don’t have time to deal with any of that. I don’t post it up because it’s not worth anyone’s time. But it is getting to the point where I want to shut this blog down.
What are the anons saying? A bunch of ignorant junk that pertains to me as a parent and how I’m raising my kid. Let me make it clear that if you have not been a parent yourself, do not make quip judgements and statements on how to “correctly” raise one. If you haven’t been a parent, you don’t really have a right to say anything that YOU think would be better for my child. Because honestly, unless I’m some abusive parent, or continue raising my child in a horrible environment without any goals or means to get out of that said environment, then shut your horse face. It’s enough that I don’t even get a good amount of credit from some people because I’m a single mom.
I’m so sick of seeing people on here that go on preaching their opinions on how they would raise a kid in a certain situation and it’s idiotic at most. Kids are SO much more different than what you would think in your head. Even dealing with someone else’s child is a big contrast from actually raising one. You say to yourself, “I can’t wait to being up my child like this and this and this, and he/she will like this and this and do this for sure”, or, “I won’t have a kid that will scream because I’ll be able to control it unlike some people”. But a child who is 11 months old and can’t understand basic commands and communication skills yet, what are you going to do? Tape their mouth shut? that’s not how it works out in the end. There’s a point where a child is teachable and can be disciplined, but there is also a point where you can’t do much and have to suck up the slight public embarrassment and be patient.
See, I used to imagine the ideal exposure I would give my child, but after having one, it was like reality at its finest showing me that kids are much different than we imagine them to be.
But enough of that. I’m sure if you’re smart enough, you would be able to catch that. But to those who criticize other parents without having been one should really keep it to themselves or just try and focus on their own life. And the anons that keep shit talking to me, you either know me through only my social media, or you are someone I used to know, but you apparently know me so well in my present day life.
God I hate this site. I just stick to it because of the funny stuff, but I’m going to shit this blog down soon if this keeps up.